What's the oldest thing in your fridge?
TRUST ME YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW. SERIOUSLY YOU DON'T
ACTUALLY I THINK IT IS THE POTATO SALAD WE TOOK TO A FRIENDS HOUSE BEFORE THE 4TH! hhhhhaaa
NOW THAT'S JUST DISGUSTING. I SAW IT IN THERE TODAY RUNNING OUT OF THE HOUSE AND WELL... I STILL DIDNT TOSS IT!
I'M NASTY.
I work at Motherhood Maternity. It really is a great company to work for if you have the time and patience to deal with preggies and hangers! Some days are better than others, and it was great starting pay::forOHIO:: I get a 30% discount too :O) I love the merchandise too.... the bras, nursing pjs, tanks, hoodies! Its super uber easy to move up in the company so that's what imma gonna do....End Advertisment haha.
It's hard sometimes with mikayla. I only worked a few hours before and now i'm working between 20 and 30. Luckily for now, this summer my 16 yr old sister has stepped up and is babysitting for me. Oh of course not for free but we don't mind it gives her some money. Plus she watches her whenever I need her and gives me no crap!!!
J is soooooo stubborn, and very moody at times. I really have to swallow my words alot with him right now. I just keep telling myself after his independant vacation to go fishing in New York with his buddies is over my life will be complete again! Because all his extra money goes to this stupid ass trip thats un-necessary and too expensive when they can hit a lake up a few hours away and have fun that way too.
Because he's going we aren't going to be able to go see his brother in Mass when their baby comes the end of this month,& his parents don't know this yet...and his brother will probably be pissed....... and have a party for mikayla's 2nd birthday. which really, i care because shes my girl but our families are all divorced and really its more annoying than anything! ha! I dont know. When Joey starts putting his "extra" money into our life....then maybe i can sleep better at nite. He doesnt understand that saving money requires you to be out of debt and caught up. You can't save $200 and not have any groceries in the fridge and say that your saving money. Its bull. and he doesnt get it. he doesnt try to get it, and won't listen to me. Money is the worst thing to talk about I hate money. I never do anything I want anymore. I don't shop, shit I bought myself 2 pairs of jeans at Gap because they were 75% off and got them both for $30.... and I felt so guilty. I could tell Joey wasn't very happy either. I am just caving in. I never imagined not having money would be so difficult. But I guess its where its all going that bothers me. A fishing trip, fast food from our lunch breaks, dwindles, bills, nothing productive EVER. Nothing for the house. It's still exactly the same since the day we moved in. Which pisses me right off. But what can I do. Its not like I can pick up a nail gun and start trim by myself. Something has got to give. I'm so tired of this depression. I'm tired of lying my way out of doing things with friends because we literally are broke and they want us to bring watermelon to the picnic and we can't!!!!!!!!! So depressing. not fun and yet the worst part is J won't cancel the trip, won't even think about it, saves his money and i literally have ZERO dollars and he's sitting on a pile of change. what am i supposed to do? So irritating. Our lives are so nice, and then money gets brought up and he's instantly shitty, disrespectful, un-budgeable, arrogant because he's to stubborn to realize we are going to start losing things...etc. cancelling things......and then he'll leave, or go upstairs and watch tv, or he'll go to bed without i saying a word.................................................its pointless which isnt good.
how the hell am i suppose to keep a smile on my face when im suffocating inside? I just needed to vent because I know exactly what all my family and friends will say. and Joey is probably the worst person to talk to about money. because he doesnt understand money and the way things work!
If you could eat only 3 foods for the rest of your life, what would they be?
Submitted by formance.
1. Green Beans:: I loves them so much and could eat them cold, hot, buttery, salty, plain, breaded, baked, fresh out of the garden, and my daughter takes after me!
2. Potatoes:: It's quite an obsession. I've loved them my WHOLE life, I love Mashed,french fries, scalloped, red-skinned, baked potato, you name it with potato...pierogie!!! and guess who else loves it all the same......Mikayla!
3. This one is tricky but I will have to say chicken--I love chicken. Except I hate KFC Chicken! Its really bad for you and its like disgusting. Italian dressing + Chicken + a grill= delicious!
17 THINGS I DON'T CARE ABOUT RIGHT NOW OR HARDLY EVER
1. FANTASY BASEBALL, FOOTBALL, GOLF, RACING...ETC
2. EVA LONGORIA'S MARRIAGE
3. PARIS HILTON AT ALL
4. THE ARABIC NATION THAT IS DESTROYING ITSELF
5. W AND YOU KNOW WHO I MEAN
6. XBOX LIVE
7. WEARING WHITE IN WINTER
8. SHITTY FESTIVALS THAT I DROPPED $30 IN FOOD AT
9. RICH PEOPLE WHO WHINE ABOUT THEIR TOUGH LIFE
10. VOTE 08' -----IT'S ALL FUK'D UP BUT AS LONG AS YOUR NAME ISN'T W GOOD JOB. OUR CHOICES ARE GREAT BY THE WAY!
11. MEN THAT THINK THEIR THAT GOOD LOOKING A MARRIED WOMAN WILL GIVE IN....
12. LEAVING HAIR IN THE DRAIN! HA!
13. WHEN MIKAYLA DROPS SOMETHING ON THE GROUND AND EATS IT!
14. FISH
15. 5 FOOD GROUPS (ARE THERE 5 OR ??)
16. THE RELEASE OF SONY'S NEW $1 MILLION DOLLAR ELECTRONIC
17. WHY GAS PRICES ARE AS HIGH AS THEY ARE. JUST FUCKING LOWER THEM. LOWER LOWER LOWER.
THATS ALL FOR NOW I'M SURE THE LIST WILL GROW!!!
I always fade into the blogger's life, then I fade out! I have been wanting to write and "inspire" for awhile now.
I want to write about Marriage, love, love lost, and children! So I'm gonna give it a shot...
I'm pretty sure that I want more children. But today I looked at Mikayla and actually thought for one minute that it wouldn't be fair to Mikayla to take that attention away from her. My daughter consumes me. She makes me smile, she keeps me going when sometimes I just want to quit and I can feel her admiration for me. I know its not modest because I know it's true and I feel it. I told myself that I was being ridiculous ::sighs:: I want more children. When is it right? Are we really ready? Financially stable first? Or never ready? I don't understand. I do know that I want Joey to want another Baby. None of this one sided shit. No blame, no guilt, just love for each other and another life! Mikki loves babies and she's going to be out of diapers soon!! PERKS!
Everyday in Marriage is a stepping stone. YOu learn what to do and not to do to make your spouse tick. If you've lived together before, I dont think it means anything when you get married. It's a new beginning. Automatically my love and respect for Joey grew, from the time we said I DO. I'm serious too. Corny crap aside.
My best advice to the newly married::
NEVER EVER EVER MENTION DIVORCE, SPLITING UP, SEPERATE ANYTHING--i.e. checking accounts, nights out etc. YOU'RE MARRIED WILL BE A SUICIDE MISSION FROM THE BEGINNING!! and RESPECT. God it is so important. A. Don't talk to me like I'm a retard. B. Your money IS my money--get used to it or seriously DON'T GET MARRIED haha just kidding. But seriously it's nothing but FIGHTS! Or big disagreements that you lose sleep over and feel like your marriage is in the shitter when in reality you over analysized and dramatized EVERYTHING, the way that women do! Not that I've done these things or anything!:o)
I'm living proof that people change.
People can change
and sometimes, most times second
chances are worth it!
What's your best tax tip?
H&R block is expensive and we cant wait to do our own taxes next year.
ha
Went to the Italian American Fest on Fri--mainly to meet up with Joey's dad. But we let Mikayla play a game! So cute.... We paid $2 for our daughter to pull a duckie out of a kiddie pool...but her getting all excited was priceless! Best $2 bucks I spent all week! (*that's also her daddy in the pic*)
Today was an extremely great day.... Mikayla got to turn around in her Big Girl Car Seat today. Let me tell you...car rides are SOOOOOO much more interesting now! I can't help but turn around every other minute just too see if she is confused? or happy? or chillin! Her facial expressions in the car kill me!
Shower Invites went out! 72 shower invites....! Yikes....I think thats pretty good. I'm so flippin excited I can't wait. My sister-in-law is a graphic designer and she made them. i looveee them! She did exactly what I asked her to do.
Gotta make my next Bridesmaid Newsletter and although it seems dorky I was thinking of making a "groomsmen one" because 3 of 6 are out of town and aren't coming in town until 2 days before so It will keep them in the loop-- let me see if I can get picks of the one I already made so you know what the hell I mean!
Lets see what else....Tuxes have been picked out for months- bridesmaid dresses ordered waiting for the call to pick them up, my dress is at my mommy's!! I stare at it all day when I'm there! I have my veil, shoes, and now I need to focus on GIFTS!
Got the okay and spending limit on Rehearsal Dinner as paid for by F-F-I-L (future father in law) so awesome and it will be kick ass-- *he lives 2 hours away so I get to plan that as well!! its added stress but I dont mind! He is awesome! and we can have open bar --sweet!
Still debating the $650 for the limo bus just to pick us up...take us to the ceremony...and reception considering our pictures will be at our outdoor chapel....? hmmm. they are fun but $650 for a 20 minute ride? and I dont care what anyone says you can not stand up and move around those things while in motion...you'll die!
*Bought Styrofoam for my "R" Rose door hanging things for the reception-- It has to be shaved--and one of my bm's moms can do them!!! then Joey informs me that he can get styrofoam for free from his work! GREAT!! so I have 10 giamangeous pieces floating around my house... my profile on theknot.com wont let me snag it again and I dont have it saved on my laptop....shit.
Still gotta pick out those rings? Hmmmm. We have a little bit of time.
Irrelevant:: I super cleaned my house and organized all my papers--and theres like 12 stacks...just behind on things this YEAR!!!!
and that's a no on photos right now! sorry!!
I'm supposed to be making my bouquets tomorrow but dear mom cancelled on me? WTF? You don't cancel on a bride--ever! j.k
I don't understand the "American's" being upset by the new secruity breech processes now?
--->Okay no liquids on a plane....and bitch about it....or
--->Get blown up and no one ever hears from you again!
I'll take new secruity measures for a thousand Alex!--some people.
Inconvienced? who cares....are you safe and alive when you reach your destination? That's what the hell I'm saying. Hish Pish! Crazy Americans! hahaha!
Mikayla is still sick. Damn tooth. It's cute though! I have a baby shower to go to Tomorrow! So excited.
Alexis...did you move? or get that APT? I need to know to send out your invite, even though I know you can't make the shower i'm still sending u one because they are flippin cute as all get out!--lemme kno
Got the Job at Sams. and registering for classes next week. crazy!
I picked up my wedding dress today. and insisted to try it on again because I love it sooo very much!
Definately wearing my hair up! It just makes it look so much more elegant!
My mom wants to wear black. Something about wearing it again because my brother is sending her and her boyfriend on a cruise.... okay. Black just wouldn't be my first choice!
This wasn't today. I also got my veil on Ebay (the exact same one in Davids Bridal) for $42.00 it's originally $135. Yowza's I gotta deal!
The Bridesmaid Dresses. I always visioned Black. But as soon as my Sister Jessica in black had it on and my other BMaid Michelle put the same dress on in Apple Red, I've been in love with A.Red
So my Wedding Dress is officially stored at my Mother's house until Alterations and my big day arrive. Which my mom and I calculated today as 11 weeks away. Which scares me due to money oh well. I guess it will all work out.
We have a honeymoon!!! A Carnival Cruise to the Cayman Islands and Mexico. It's 5 days because we didn't want to be away from Mikayla that long. We leave the following Saturday after our Wedding Day!
Cheerio for now. I've been posting so much because Mikayla is laid up on the couch and won't let me move so I'm bored on the Internet.....all day....still haven't slept! WOAH!
